More than ever, it’s urgent San Diegans come together. Our county’s election results suggest we’re closer than other American regions. But there are more steps we can take with intentionality to increase the quality and depth of relationships among San Diego’s diverse people. I believe we get there through a determined focus on inclusion. So, I offer San Diego a resolution to commit to learn and practice inclusive leadership. The capacity for inclusive leadership is not just in some of us, it is within all of us.
Inclusion waltzes well beyond diversity. It’s likely a vast supermajority of San Diegans conceptually embrace diversity. Unfortunately, the diversity concept has simply become a celebration of perhaps Black History or International Women’s Month; Cesar Chavez or Harvey Milk Day; donating to or volunteering with a charitable organization for the elderly, disabled, refugees or otherwise marginalized; or, going to that cultural event or diversity training. Diversity has become a numbers game; inclusion is about quality – the beautiful choreography of relationships.
Inclusive leadership invites us to a richer rhythm of social interaction. It’s beyond counting heads, respecting differences, discovering commonalities or not being offensive. Inclusion is a fusion of all these things and more. A couple of quick dance moves for San Diegans to get started with as we learn and practice inclusive leadership: Lead with love and not from a place of authority, position, title or privilege. Listen to understand and not to respond, make a point or win an argument.
A few advanced moves for various San Diego County elected officials, policymakers and persons of influence:
• In a clear demonstration of a priority value on inclusion, how about local governments and agencies adopt a new budget policy, which I call a Dime for Democracy. In every public budget, for every line item practical, let’s allocate the first 10 cents of every dollar to reimagining the idea of “we the people.” Investing in efforts to increase civic engagement, seating new faces at the table and adding new voices to the discussion. Let’s open government through partnerships with our high-tech community to make more information publicly available online and to make it easier to access services, as well as communicate and do business with government. How about setting aside community space in public facilities? Who knows what other creative ideas we can come up with to enhance full, inclusive democratic participation if we put our money where our mouths are.
• Give real attention to creating affordable housing in every corner of the county with a critical focus on reversing the unacceptable and dramatic surge in local homelessness. Politicians, all of us actually, would benefit from using and thinking in more inclusive language such as “San Diegans without homes,” as opposed to the labeling of the others; in this case, too commonly and casually known as the homeless.
We Stand Up for You. Will You Stand Up for Us?
Dwayne- Thanks for your insights and recommendations re:homelessness- The lack of affordable housing in our city has become a moral and humanitarian as well as an economic crisis. It impacts the entire region, and the housed as well as homeless people. A solution will require a comprehensive plan of action from the Mayors and City Councils in the county.
One very wrong approach- currently embraced by Kevin Faulconer- is issuing $130 citations to people for being homeless and having their belongings in public places. This is like criticizing a person for being sick: it doesn't help, and often hurts.
Many of these people need medical treatment and mental health counseling, not legal bills they will never be able to pay. The County Board of Supervisors needs to leverage their nearly-$200 million share of Prop. 63 funds to provide these services.
This refusal to spend Prop. 63 funds has triggered an epidemic of homelessness. It is also a reflection of the region's high cost of housing. Many of the homeless people now struggling to survive downtown are long-time San Diegans who lost their housing due to illness, divorce or death of a family member, loss of a job, and- sadly- the redevelopment of older affordable housing.
It could happen to anyone on a fixed income who lacks a good support network of family members or understanding, supportive friends.
For all these reasons: it's time to come up with a plan. Not dealing with this in 2017 will continue to create a long term and negative ripple effect on the quality of life in San Diego county for everyone- homeless or otherwise.